how do you deal with negative people?
you don't. i always thought i can change people who are close to me. if not change, that i can at least influence them.
i was wrong.
i can't change any one. i can only change my vibration. and by doing so, i shift to a parallel universe where that version of that particular person is of the right vibration, or i see a different person with the right vibration.
i am talking here about my wife. she is so negative right now. the economic crisis is getting to her. i react to her vibration, and by doing so, i get into the negative state.
i realized i can't change her. i can and will only change my self. i don't know how this will turn out. i do not have to know what is going to happen. all i know is that i need to improve my vibration if i want to better my reality. i do not know if my wife is going to be there when i shift reality. either it is a higher vibration version of her, or an entirely different person.
what i do understand is thati am responsible only for my own vibration. i can't change or influence others to change.
