this is in addition to the chat i had last night with my exgf.
if we all teach by the clarity of our example, and if i were to live my life miserably as she was, then what my kids are learning is that it is 'good' to be miserable and that by being miserable, they are acting like good adults.
our kids learn most from us parents, i believe. it is my intention to see them grow up happy, and be happy at each and all moments. but if i am not, if i do not make a choice to be happy, then they too, might choose the same. not that they can choose.
happiness is a choice. at each moment, you can choose to be happy or not. your vibration is your point of attraction. when you choose to move away from joy, you attract more to your self that which will move you away from joy. as you are loved unconditionally.
if i were her then, how do i change things? it has to come from her. it has to come from inside. each moment, look for a reason, and use every excuse to be happy now. any excuse will do.
the fact that the sun is out right now is a good reason. the fact that i had a good night's sleep is a good reason. just bask in it. just be happy even if i had no reason to be happy. just let go of those thoughts that point you upstream. if i cannot be happy, then i will allow what is. i will offer no resistance. just let it be, if circumstances are not what i want it to be. it is there for a reason. i brought this to my self.
self awareness.
